This past year saw significant change to New Connections
Ministries (NCM). With the addition of
counsellor/life coach Steve Prendergast in May of 2024, NCM got an added
function to address the most pressing concerns that men in addictions recovery
face, post-treatment. These concerns
include long-term employment, housing, continuing discipleship through a local
church, familial relationship issues, and any personal challenges to lasting
sobriety and maturity in Christ. This is
the hallmark of NCM’s mission to disciple men in recovery in an ever-developing
relationship with Jesus Christ as they transition back to society with a
renewed sense of purpose in their lives.
Through the impetus
of both one-on-one and group counselling, coupled with random drug testing for
all residents, and an obligatory regimen of weekly church attendance, work,
school, or community volunteerism, NCM’s Board of Directors believe that this multi-faceted
approach can meet these concerns with greater effect. Group recreational activities also play a
part in the residents’ recovery. In
December, the men enjoyed a day out at a local bowling alley. This proved to be a much-needed release of
leisure and camaraderie to offset the stresses of uncertainty in employment and
housing that post-incarceration, recovering addicts have to manage. Prendergast believes this added dimension
provides ‘good, clean fun,’ as a healthy alternative to substance abuse when
these stresses of uncertainty rear their ugly head.
As 2025 unfolds,
another dimension to ongoing recovery will be added to augment this
approach. On February 1st, NCM opened
its doors to a “second phase” (transitional) home for men in recovery who have
completed a minimum of one year at Liberty House. Hope Horizons, located at 6 Assiniboine
Drive, in Ottawa, has been in the works for awhile but finally came to fruition
when an ideal home was found to house an additional six men. This location provides another residential
setting that completes NCM’s twofold ministry dynamic of discipleship and
transition back to society.
The discipleship
phase at Liberty House (48 Pender Street in Ottawa), will continue to offer
discipleship through mentoring, counselling, group biblical studies, and
life-coaching for a minimum of one year, and then the residents will either
move on to their own home or to the transitional phase at the new home on
Assiniboine Drive. The transitional
phase will be an opportunity for the men to utilize the spiritual disciplines
they have developed while at Liberty House.
While they’re residing at the second phase home, they will still get
counselling and be subject to the same standards of the Christian Walk,
sobriety, and responsible living.
Hebrews 10:24-25 (NASB): “And let’s consider how to encourage one another in love and good deeds, not abandoning our meeting together, as is the habit of some people, but encouraging one another; and all the more, as you see the day drawing near.”
The idea for a second phase home was conceived from a
concern the ministry had with the frightening and precarious circumstances men
in recovery often find themselves in upon leaving Liberty House. A significant number of men who complete one
year or more at Liberty House go on to Christ-centred lives, free of
addiction. Some, however, make poor
decisions, some of which may have resulted from moving to bad environments.
Winding up in ‘bad
environments’ is a ripple effect from multiple factors. Some of those factors include pride—often the
root cause—whereby an addict thinks they’re delivered from their former
lifestyles, and the erroneous belief that they don’t need other Christians or
fellow addicts in recovery to maintain sobriety. This in turn sets off a sequence of decisions
that can lead them to live in the polar opposite of a morally sound
environment. Other causes include men
not dealing well with hardship, or some of the hurts or relationship issues of
their lives that led to their addictive behaviours in the first place.
Another cause for
addicts moving to wrong environments is painfully obvious: Brutally high costs
of living, especially in cities like Ottawa, where rent has skyrocketed,
leaving many people—not only addicts-discouraged with the lack of decent
housing at an affordable rate. If the
addict can’t find an affordable place minus bad tenants and bad living
conditions to reside in after finishing a discipleship programme, the wrong
environment doesn’t seem so wrong to them anymore. Sadly, relapse can sometimes be the result.
New Connections
believes that a spiritually and ethically sound residence of men committed to
living for Christ, spurring each other on to holy lifestyles can be a great
catalyst for long-term sobriety and wiser judgment in their life decisions. As we are told to “show tolerance for one
another in love” (Ephesians 4:2), so too can men in recovery learn to navigate
the challenges of living with other peoples’ personality quirks while they
prepare to move on to their own places or to live with others.
We are thankful to
the Lord for His provision of Hope Horizons, a home where men in recovery can
transition to lives committed to Christ, free of substance abuse without
supervision, serving each other in humility and brotherly love, holding each
other accountable, as they mature spiritually.
Hebrews 10:24-25
(NASB): “And let’s consider how to encourage one another in love and good
deeds, not abandoning our meeting together, as is the habit of some people, but
encouraging one another; and all the more, as you see the day drawing near.”
Ephesians 5:21(NASB):
“Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”
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